What Antoine and Nicole Taught Me About US

My heart hurts for Lela Rochon. I want to turning back side kick Antoine Fuqua. Someone needs to go Angela Bassett from Waiting to Exhale on Nicole. If you haven’t already caught up on the news, Antoine and Nicole were caught kissing in PUBLIC while on vacation this week. I’m going to leave the obvious […]

Raising Emotionally Rich Kids

“It is easier to build strong children than repair broken men.” – Frederick Douglass Let me tell you, that quote just hits you differently when you have kids of your own. In my line of work, I come across many adults who struggle in and with relationships. Some cannot connect outside of the physical, some […]

The Many Faces of an Almost 40 Year Old

It’s 12:08 am and I am just now getting down to the business of writing this post. I had the very best intentions for today (well, technically, today ended about 8 minutes ago), but like usual, peace and quiet can only be found in the wee hours of the night. I don’t think my kids […]

Learning to Be Okay When They Walk Away

There is nothing more painful than when someone you love decides to end the relationship.    Whether it was a slow demise or a blindside, everything you’ve ever believed about them; everything you ever believed about YOURSELF is now called into question.  Dreams of a lifetime partnership that is just on the brink of realization are […]

Career vs Bae

You’re spending more and more time away from the home.  You keep your phone close so that you don’t miss their late night messages or calls.  Your mind is constantly drifting back to it, while your loved ones complain that you’re distant and disengaged.  You’re showing all of the signs that your career has now […]

Push or Pull Energy?

I spend a lot of time asking people what they are looking for in an ideal partner.  I ask this question first because your response will let me know two things.  First, where your priorities lie. The first couple of characteristics are always going to be the most important, similar to the ingredients on a […]

How to Create an EPIC Relationship!

Finding a couple who makes you think, “I would love to have that some day!” doesn’t come around every day (unless you’re thumbing through Instagram photos).  So what does it take to have one of your own?  How do you prepare yourself for an EPIC relationship?  The answer is extremely simple, yet it takes some […]